Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

Ep 26: BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain)

June 22, 2023 Anna & Gregor from Fetish.com Season 3
Ep 26: BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain)
Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast
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Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast
Ep 26: BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain)
Jun 22, 2023 Season 3
Anna & Gregor from Fetish.com

Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. 

Timestamps:

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • When your kinky partner breaks it off [00:05:07] 
  • Ghosting – forget the idea of closure [00:07:09] 
  • When a breach of trust ruins a dynamic [00:10:26]
  • Do the impossible: forgive [00:13:17] 

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Show Notes

Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. 

Timestamps:

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • When your kinky partner breaks it off [00:05:07] 
  • Ghosting – forget the idea of closure [00:07:09] 
  • When a breach of trust ruins a dynamic [00:10:26]
  • Do the impossible: forgive [00:13:17] 

Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter.

Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! 

Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com.